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M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259r “m\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131ma azadl\u0131q vermi\u015f\u0259m, onlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri q\u0259rar ver\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r” dem\u0259yi se\u00e7irl\u0259r. B\u0259li bu avropasaya\u011f\u0131 s\u0259sl\u0259nir, qula\u011fa \u00e7ox xo\u015f g\u0259lir. Amma “azadl\u0131q” veril\u0259n u\u015faqlar x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r ald\u0131qlar\u0131 q\u0259rarlar\u0131n n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki sonra yaranan probleml\u0259ri el\u0259 “\u00f6vladlar\u0131na azadl\u0131q ver\u0259n valideynl\u0259r” h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ehtimal ki, valideynl\u0259rd\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rinin onlara qoyduqlar\u0131 qada\u011fa, \u00e7\u0259kdikl\u0259ri s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yaranm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259r “ail\u0259m m\u0259n\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259di”, “m\u0259n \u00f6z q\u0259rarlar\u0131mla h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259 bilm\u0259dim”, “arzular\u0131m \u00fcr\u0259yimd\u0259 qald\u0131” dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6vladlar\u0131na q\u0259rar q\u0259bul etm\u0259 haqq\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131lar. Amma bu zaman \u00f6vladlar\u0131na m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259tini ba\u015fa salmayan valideynl\u0259rin i\u015fi \u00e7\u0259tin ola bil\u0259r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za serbestlik ver\u0259rk\u0259n onlara ald\u0131qlar\u0131 q\u0259rarlar\u0131n n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini, h\u0259r zaman h\u0259r i\u015fin qaydas\u0131nda getm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini m\u00fctl\u0259q halda ba\u015fa salmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 bir \u00e7ox halda i\u015fl\u0259r f\u0259rqli c\u00fcr c\u0259r\u0259yan edir. U\u015faqlar “bel\u0259 ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn” , n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini g\u00f6z\u0259 almadan q\u0259rarlar q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r v\u0259 n\u0259hay\u0259t n\u0259s\u0259 yolunda getm\u0259s\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259k valideynl\u0259r\u0259 qal\u0131r. Bu is\u0259 azadl\u0131qdan \u00e7ox as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011fa b\u0259nz\u0259yir. Valideynl\u0259r daima u\u015faqlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmaya bil\u0259rl\u0259r, olsalar bel\u0259 onlara d\u0259st\u0259k olma imkanlar\u0131 olmaya bil\u0259r \u00e7\u00fcnki b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0259hvl\u0259r b\u0259rpa olunan deyildir. Bel\u0259 olan halda is\u0259 “filank\u0259sd\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 olmu\u015fdu, t\u0259k ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259n s\u0259n deyils\u0259n ki ” dem\u0259k yerin\u0259, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri ba\u015fa sal\u0131nmal\u0131, n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ndiyi vur\u011fulanmal\u0131, s\u0259hvl\u0259r g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilm\u0259m\u0259lidir. B\u0259li, azadl\u0131q h\u0259r insan\u0131n haqq\u0131d\u0131r. Amma azadl\u0131q s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn m\u0259nas\u0131 da d\u00fczg\u00fcn d\u0259rk edilm\u0259lidir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n. \u00c7\u00fcnki boy\u00fcd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra bel\u0259 fikirl\u0259rimiz, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 t\u0259rzimiz ya ail\u0259miz t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n biz\u0259 t\u0259lqin olunan fikirl\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n yola \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r, ya da d\u0259yi\u015fs\u0259 bel\u0259 “g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n” “b\u0259lk\u0259” dey\u0259 q\u0259rars\u0131zl\u0131qda qalm\u0131\u015f ola bilirik. Valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n, onlara milli, m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk ed\u0259r\u0259k azadl\u0131q verm\u0259li, insanlara, \u00f6 bubz\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259yi, d\u0259y\u0259r verm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. M\u0259suliyy\u0259t olmadan azadl\u0131q olarsa o, art\u0131q \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131nal\u0131\u011fa,terbiyesizliye \u00e7evril\u0259r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00a0 M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259r “m\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131ma azadl\u0131q vermi\u015f\u0259m, onlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri q\u0259rar ver\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r” dem\u0259yi se\u00e7irl\u0259r. B\u0259li bu avropasaya\u011f\u0131 s\u0259sl\u0259nir, qula\u011fa \u00e7ox xo\u015f g\u0259lir. Amma “azadl\u0131q” veril\u0259n u\u015faqlar x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r ald\u0131qlar\u0131 q\u0259rarlar\u0131n n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki sonra yaranan probleml\u0259ri el\u0259 “\u00f6vladlar\u0131na azadl\u0131q ver\u0259n valideynl\u0259r” h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ehtimal ki, valideynl\u0259rd\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rinin onlara qoyduqlar\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[67,70,26,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5331","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dunya","category-elm-v-thsil","category-xbrlr","category-ziyalilarimiz"],"translation":{"provider":"WPGlobus","version":"3.0.2","language":"az","enabled_languages":["tl","az"],"languages":{"tl":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false},"az":{"title":false,"content":false,"excerpt":false}}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5331","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5331"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5331\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5335,"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5331\/revisions\/5335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5331"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5331"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dodoqezeti.az\/az\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5331"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259r “m\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131ma azadl\u0131q vermi\u015f\u0259m, onlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri q\u0259rar ver\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r” dem\u0259yi se\u00e7irl\u0259r. B\u0259li bu avropasaya\u011f\u0131 s\u0259sl\u0259nir, qula\u011fa \u00e7ox xo\u015f g\u0259lir. Amma “azadl\u0131q” veril\u0259n u\u015faqlar x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r ald\u0131qlar\u0131 q\u0259rarlar\u0131n n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki sonra yaranan probleml\u0259ri el\u0259 “\u00f6vladlar\u0131na azadl\u0131q ver\u0259n valideynl\u0259r” h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ehtimal ki, valideynl\u0259rd\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rinin onlara qoyduqlar\u0131 qada\u011fa, \u00e7\u0259kdikl\u0259ri s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yaranm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259r “ail\u0259m m\u0259n\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259di”, “m\u0259n \u00f6z q\u0259rarlar\u0131mla h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259 bilm\u0259dim”, “arzular\u0131m \u00fcr\u0259yimd\u0259 qald\u0131” dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6vladlar\u0131na q\u0259rar q\u0259bul etm\u0259 haqq\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131lar. Amma bu zaman \u00f6vladlar\u0131na m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259tini ba\u015fa salmayan valideynl\u0259rin i\u015fi \u00e7\u0259tin ola bil\u0259r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za serbestlik ver\u0259rk\u0259n onlara ald\u0131qlar\u0131 q\u0259rarlar\u0131n n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini, h\u0259r zaman h\u0259r i\u015fin qaydas\u0131nda getm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini m\u00fctl\u0259q halda ba\u015fa salmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 bir \u00e7ox halda i\u015fl\u0259r f\u0259rqli c\u00fcr c\u0259r\u0259yan edir. U\u015faqlar “bel\u0259 ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn” , n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini g\u00f6z\u0259 almadan q\u0259rarlar q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r v\u0259 n\u0259hay\u0259t n\u0259s\u0259 yolunda getm\u0259s\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259k valideynl\u0259r\u0259 qal\u0131r. Bu is\u0259 azadl\u0131qdan \u00e7ox as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011fa b\u0259nz\u0259yir. Valideynl\u0259r daima u\u015faqlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmaya bil\u0259rl\u0259r, olsalar bel\u0259 onlara d\u0259st\u0259k olma imkanlar\u0131 olmaya bil\u0259r \u00e7\u00fcnki b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0259hvl\u0259r b\u0259rpa olunan deyildir. Bel\u0259 olan halda is\u0259 “filank\u0259sd\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 olmu\u015fdu, t\u0259k ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259n s\u0259n deyils\u0259n ki ” dem\u0259k yerin\u0259, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri ba\u015fa sal\u0131nmal\u0131, n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ndiyi vur\u011fulanmal\u0131, s\u0259hvl\u0259r g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilm\u0259m\u0259lidir. B\u0259li, azadl\u0131q h\u0259r insan\u0131n haqq\u0131d\u0131r. Amma azadl\u0131q s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn m\u0259nas\u0131 da d\u00fczg\u00fcn d\u0259rk edilm\u0259lidir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n. \u00c7\u00fcnki boy\u00fcd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra bel\u0259 fikirl\u0259rimiz, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 t\u0259rzimiz ya ail\u0259miz t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n biz\u0259 t\u0259lqin olunan fikirl\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n yola \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r, ya da d\u0259yi\u015fs\u0259 bel\u0259 “g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n” “b\u0259lk\u0259” dey\u0259 q\u0259rars\u0131zl\u0131qda qalm\u0131\u015f ola bilirik. Valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n, onlara milli, m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk ed\u0259r\u0259k azadl\u0131q verm\u0259li, insanlara, \u00f6 bubz\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259yi, d\u0259y\u0259r verm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. M\u0259suliyy\u0259t olmadan azadl\u0131q olarsa o, art\u0131q \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131nal\u0131\u011fa,terbiyesizliye \u00e7evril\u0259r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"